caminadorlargo 59 H
5  Artículos
Solo amistad   28/3/2019

Es un poco frustrante el buscar, buscar, chat, tras chat y no poder concretar una cita, simpre hay una disculpa, de que no hay tiempo, estamos lejos, estas feo, eres muy grande , etc, ni modo debo seguir insistiendo, y hago un llamado a las damas que lean esto, si les interesa conocerme aqui estoy dispuesto


0 Comentarios, 0 Vistas, 0 Votos
LindaCanaless 26 M
4  Artículos
Saying is not the best sometimes!   26/3/2019

Respect and communication is very important when you are in a relacoin, worse sometimes it is very important to give yourself the space to enjoy, and sometimes it is necessary to say no!


2 Comentarios, 12 Vistas, 5 Votos ,5.43 Puntuación
Lorehill 23 M
4  Artículos
No thanks   2/8/2018

Sometimes I think about If I continue to say No after all? I need something different to make me happy now !


0 Comentarios, 5 Vistas, 4 Votos ,2.08 Puntuación
locosexfon 26 H
2  Artículos
No a las citas peligrosas   14/1/2018

La comunidad no toma en cuenta que todas las citas pueden tener un sentido de peligro si se llegan a dar


2 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 5 Votos ,4.45 Puntuación
DuPanther 29 H
4  Artículos
A veces, es mejor decir que NO   5/6/2017

Muchas veces los impulsos nos llevan a cometer cosas que en realidad no queremos o cosas que no son buenas para nosotros. Siempre hay que hacer un esfuerzo por evaluar la situación de manera calmada, quizás a muchas de las cosas que decimos que NO podríamos encontrarles el SÍ y aprovechar mejor la situación, pero bajo otras circunstancias en las que nuestras hormonas y deseos imparables nos ...


2 Comentarios, 30 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.26 Puntuación
yorch65 53 H
4  Artículos
Un hombre diciendo NO a una dama   23/3/2017

Por que una mujer tiene todo el derecho de rechazar a un hombre sin problema..incluso agradecemos y nos disculpamos.... Pero.... porque si un hombre rechaza a una dama, es insultado, mal visto, incluso reportado, donde queda la igualdad de genero ? Saludos!!!


3 Comentarios, 24 Vistas, 12 Votos ,4.39 Puntuación
rm_Miguelinzun 22 H
5  Artículos
el miedo de la previa   28/8/2016

al momento de juntarse con la otra persona para todo el asunto, siempre existe cierta duda y verguenza por no conocer a la otra persona antes. Es dificil pero superable, ahora, ultimamente me ha pasado: hablo con una chica y quedamos en salir, estamos toda la semana hablando de sisisi y vamos a tirar y tal y pascual. Llega el dia y adivina, se echa para atras.

Esta bien decir que no ...


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.65 Puntuación
putichichotas16 21 M
1  Artículo
Por que los hombres son necios?   19/8/2016

Muchos hombres de esta pagina son necios, no entienden cuando una mujer dice "NO", muchas de nosotras solo buscamos mujeres y aunque ponemos "mujeres" en nuestras preferencias automáticamente también nos arroja "parejas" y algunas de esas "Parejas" son hombres solos que se ocultan detrás de una imagen de pareja, lo que no saben es que no otras no somos tan mensas y nos damos cuenta de eso


5 Comentarios, 43 Vistas, 23 Votos ,4.53 Puntuación
davidacostaecu 28 H
12  Artículos
mil veces dije si, queriendo decir no   24/5/2016

El miedo de decir que no, ante el problema del miedo escenico o miedo al que diran. la dificultad de mantener el criterio y pensamiento...


0 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.14 Puntuación
delicieuxboy 27 H
6  Artículos
vale la pena "el sexo casual en el trabajo"?   29/4/2016

trabajo en un lugar concurrido de mi ciudad "x" lugar pero espacioso y amplio, tengo una compañera con la que siempre que el lugar esta solo o poco frecuentado , tenemos sexo, apañes, juegos, con el riesgo de que llege algun jefe y sin intenciones de salir de eso por parte de ella, mi decisión esta tomada y es nooo seguir con esto, pero requiero la manera de iniciar una charla con alguien ...


2 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 7 Votos ,3.80 Puntuación
RPU1981 37 H
1  Artículo
como ser suave a ..   20/3/2016

como decir no sin machacar a la otra persona?


1 Comentarios, 10 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.79 Puntuación
yosexy16 29 M
1  Artículo
Decir no o ignorar los mensajes   14/11/2015

Creo que a nosotras como mujeres nos llegan muchísimos más mensajes que a los hombres, igual si te conectas al IM te atacan luego luego jajaja, yo en lo personal a veces de tantos mensajes ya ni los respondo( si los leo, pero no los respondo) a menos que en verdad me llame mucho la atención, aunque siento que a veces algunos se molestan porque no les contestamos pero pues no es grosería, ...


5 Comentarios, 67 Vistas, 25 Votos ,4.02 Puntuación
69MAS69 56 H
1  Artículo
NO   30/7/2015

Somos adultos, y como muchos de nosotros...tenemos la tendencia a decir SI...pero en realidad??? deseamos decir SÍ...o es el compromiso, la necesidad de estar acompañado, y si digo No..que lío me traera???... En fin en este espacio lo dejare para el debate.....pero recuerda un NO a tiempo....es una de las posibilidades que te ayudara.....a mejoarar tu calidad de vida!!


1 Comentarios, 15 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.37 Puntuación
rm_HenryMan2015 37 H
10  Artículos
Gracias y No gracias   18/4/2015

siempre se debe ser cortés incluso para decir "No gracias" por eso cuando algo no te gusta, o no estás de acuerdo, muy tranquilo y siempre con respeto debes responder "Gracias pero no gracias". Eso te ahorrará más un disgusto si aceptas algo que no es de tu agrado, Suerte a todos


2 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 9 Votos ,4.07 Puntuación
noaprendido 37 H
16  Artículos
Ni hetero curioso.   10/4/2015

Definitivamente no soy bisexual, y eso que esta comprobado que tengo más tirón entre los hombres que entre las mujeres y ojala no fuera así. Ojala fuera todo lo contrario. No sé.

La cuestión es que hace poco se me abalanzó uno y no siento lo mismo que con una mujer. Con ese lo único que sentí fue tenerlo que apartar y verlo después todo avergonzado mientras me pedía perdón una ...


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.02 Puntuación
mitchzod 26 H
12  Artículos
a quien le ha pasado?   3/3/2015

Entras a la página, notificaciones nuevas, un flirt, te agregaron a su lista caliente, comentarios en una foto tuya, likes, tip fan. Y dices uff que emocion una chica me anda stolkeando y pum cruel realidad, weyes echandote los perros, nomames vayanse a jotear a otro lado jaja


1 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.82 Puntuación
gladys115 29 M
1  Artículo
la anciedad de los amigos   29/1/2015

mi experiencia que tenido en que quisieran que nos acotaramos de inmediato piensan que somos prostis yy abesses asta nos tratan mal y no sabes que es un medio que nos permite conosernos mas con mas libertad tube un caso de una persona que me busco tanto que le ise una cita cuando le dije que el color de su cohe o modelo marca se molesto me pregunto muchas cosas que ...


2 Comentarios, 31 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.54 Puntuación
kacelin13 24 H
1  Artículo
sed que es dificil pero se previenen mucho problemas   25/10/2014

la versión fácil es pensando las cosas mínimo 3 veces y búscales pro y contras, hay que ser inteligente en la situación cualquiera que sea, si después de pensarlo mínimo tres veces y y no tienes ninguna cuestión en contra que no sea grave, HAZLO


1 Comentarios, 9 Vistas, 2 Votos ,4.50 Puntuación
nansi6 20 M
1  Artículo
SI Y TAMBIEN NO   8/6/2014

siempre vusko kozaz mui especificas y simplemente no respondo mensajes de gente ke no me guzta fisikamente, solo vusko sexo como todos "para eso es la pagina" pero hasta los animales tienen sus gustos sus limites y preferencias, me gustan los muskulosos o altos, asi ke si no son asi simplemente digo NO jajaja besos a todos, a por cierto a veces juego a decir NO pero en el fondo deseo lo contrario ...


9 Comentarios, 66 Vistas, 20 Votos ,4.91 Puntuación
noaprendido 37 H
16  Artículos
Contra la pederastia   3/12/2013

Aquí están mis motivos. Si tienes otros añádelos y debatamos.

1- Hay edades para todo. La edad de jugar es la infancia. La edad de experimentar con la vida es la adolescencia. La edad de disfrutar con el sexo es la adulta.

2- Los cuerpos de las personas, en su gran mayoría, no están acabados de formar hasta los 20 años. Si se prefiere la fruta madura a la que se recoge ...


3 Comentarios, 27 Vistas, 8 Votos ,4.64 Puntuación
blackman3587 38 H
3  Artículos
Evita perdida de tiempo   30/8/2013

Aveces hay que decir no y otras si. Hay que estar preparado para oir ambas.


0 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 2 Votos ,1.73 Puntuación
decir no gracias   1/7/2013

un "No Gracias", a tiempo, echaría a perder cientos de visitas a este tipo de chats, sería su ruina.


0 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
boricualujurioso 29 H
6  Artículos
pq ser inmaduro di no gracias!   4/6/2013

Muchas personas creen que pq esa persona que esta interesada en tener algo con ellos busca la manera de atraer es un acosador pero pq decir esto o pensar de esa manera si no haz puesto un stop a eso ? en mi opinion si alguien no te interesa debes ponerle un pare dejando la ignorancia e inmadures a un lado y comunicarse y de una manera sutil pero entendible decir no gracias no eres mi tipo o no ...


2 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.63 Puntuación
Dificil decir No   24/9/2012

Ha pasado muy poco en mi caso, pero que dificil decir no gracias, mas para un hombre. La mayoria de las mujeres estan acostumbradas, pero para un hombre existe inclusive presion social. Si uno no quiere con alguien, porque no le gusta, no le cae bien o el motivo que sea, sencilla quimica, es facil de ser tachado de un monton de cosas. Talvez por mero despecho. Las relaciones por aqui tienden a ...


1 Comentarios, 26 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.55 Puntuación
Wishmasterknigth 32 H
2  Artículos
coprofilia   3/2/2011

En otra página encontre una solicitud de información sobre la coprofilia y este sujeto preguntaba la opinion de los socios. Yo me pregunto que opinan lo usuarios de este club, ya que ciertamente es otro público. Gracias espero comentarios...


2 Comentarios, 71 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.32 Puntuación
rm_Rockdr007 39 H
4  Artículos
La esposa de... quiere conmigo   21/1/2011

Al principio pense que solo era mi imaginación pero sus insinuaciones fueron subiendo de tono y aunque no era constantes ya me indicaban que quería algo má sque una relación de amsitad por al relación familiar, pues es esposa d emi cuñado.Un día la encontre en el centro comericla y como ya ambos nos ibamos me ofrcía llevarla a casa y ahí aprovecho para ahabalrme ...


3 Comentarios, 198 Vistas, 15 Votos ,2.82 Puntuación
rm_Rockdr007 39 H
4  Artículos
La esposa de... quiere conmigo   21/1/2011

Al principio pense que solo era mi imaginación pero sus insinuaciones fueron subiendo de tono y aunque no era constantes ya me indicaban que quería algo má sque una relación de amsitad por al relación familiar, pues es esposa d emi cuñado.Un día la encontre en el centro comericla y como ya ambos nos ibamos me ofrcía llevarla a casa y ahí aprovecho para ahabalrme ...


0 Comentarios, 72 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
69PATMAR 46 M
10  Artículos
La píldora del día después   12/8/2010

La píldora del día después, o la también llamada píldora postcoital, se comporta como método anticonceptivo de emergencia que, tal como su nombre lo indica, es utilizado en casos de emergencia después de tener relaciones sexuales con riesgo de embarazo, situación que se puede provocar por medio de un coito sin protección o en caso de que el método de protección ...


3 Comentarios, 75 Vistas, 22 Votos ,5.89 Puntuación
Locking4AChik 23 H
5  Artículos
Cuando la gente se hacer pasar por alguien que no es   9/1/2010

Bueno en una pagina diferente de adult finder alguien me habia agregado... tenia la foto de una chica muy wuapa... me soltaba media barrabanada erotica... cuando planeavamos vernos me confeso que era un hombre buscando a alguien que le diera por el culo... simplemete lo rechase...

Aqui la duda es... ¿Por que rayos se hacen pasar por quienes no son? no soy el unico a las mujeres les a de ...


4 Comentarios, 137 Vistas, 16 Votos ,4.89 Puntuación
montadito2009 44 H
5  Artículos
no cuesta nada   26/9/2009

contestar, despues que se lo tome cada uno como quiera


1 Comentarios, 61 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.65 Puntuación
caballeroag 63 H
1  Artículo
¿Y ahora que? es que no me gusta   19/9/2009

Ya le escribi ya me contesto ya le di mi mail ya platicamos con cam vi que ella no es tan fea -en cam-, vi que su personalidad es compatible con la mia, vi que le gustan las mismas canciones que a mi. Platicamos mucho y finalmente nos citamos, quedamos en la manera de reconocernos y todo eso y veo que no es lo que esperaba, pero soy un caballero y no puedo hacerle una groseria desairandola, y ...


1 Comentarios, 64 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.84 Puntuación
sylves 35 H
1  Artículo
Negocio por webcam   16/9/2009

Que pensáis de la gente que entra a los chats intentando que te conectes a páginas de cam por pago???


0 Comentarios, 35 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.02 Puntuación
LunaMarTierra 62 H
40  Artículos
Decir adios antes es mejor   12/9/2009

Decir adiós antes es mejor … a veces pienso…

así no se gastarán minutos, no se invertirán recuerdos…

no habrá tanto dolor….…. o amor…. al que aferrarse.





Decir adiós antes es mejor…siento que es cierto,

así no perder ni anhelos … ni sueños…. ni tiempo,

...


2 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 5 Votos ,5.10 Puntuación
LunaMarTierra 62 H
40  Artículos
Los motivos de mi amiga (Andrea) para no entrar a AmigosCalientes.com... sera?   20/7/2009

En un mundo muy especial donde prima la cibernética, donde las vías de comunicación mantienen la información actualizada cada segundo y donde al mismo tiempo uno de los mayores problemas es la dificultad para relacionarse con un otro, en Adult FriendFinder habita un tipo de hombre muy particular. Son representantes del sexo masculino que viven colgados de un amor platónico añorando aquella ...


1 Comentarios, 61 Vistas, 5 Votos ,4.45 Puntuación
rm_cosito54 60 H
16  Artículos
LOS QUE SE AMAN   8/6/2009

Cómo hablar del amor y de los que se aman sin parecer cursi? Muchas veces provoca expresar palabras para mostrar agradecimiento con la vida misma, y yo estoy agradecido hoy y cada día del resto de mi vida. Quizás mi enfoque no sea el clásico y común acostumbrado pero trataré de expresar algo muy difícil de decir con letras.



A menudo encuentro gente quien por una u otra ...


0 Comentarios, 2 Vistas, 0 Votos
rm_cosito54 60 H
16  Artículos
DUELE AMAR   8/6/2009

Duele amar a alguien y no ser correspondidos, pero lo que es más doloroso es amar a alguien y nunca encontrar el valor para decirle a esa persona lo que sientes. Tal vez Dios quiere que nosotros conozcamos a unas cuantas personas equivocadas antes de conocer a la persona correcta, para que al fin cuando la conozcamos, sepamos ser agradecidos por ese maravilloso regalo. Una de las cosas más ...


0 Comentarios, 18 Vistas, 2 Votos ,5.20 Puntuación
rm_cosito54 60 H
16  Artículos
¿TU A QUIEN ESCOGERÍAS?   8/6/2009

Una mujer salió de su casa y vio a tres viejos de largas barbas sentados frente a su jardín. Ella no los conocía y les dijo: no creo conocerlos, pero deben tener hambre. Por favor entren a mi casa para que coman algo. - No podemos entrar a una casa los tres juntos, explicaron los viejitos. - ¿Por qué?, quiso saber ella. Uno de los hombres apuntó hacia otro de sus amigos y explicó: su ...


0 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 1 Votos ,2.40 Puntuación
crazy_porty 47 H
92  Artículos
El embarzo en la adolescencia   8/5/2009

El embarazo en la adolescencia suele ser una experiencia de vida adversa, queda marcada por el rechazo familiar, el abandono de escuela, pérdida de amistades sentimiento de culpa y depresión.

La investigadora de la UNAM (Universidad Nacional Autónoma de México) Patricia Piñones señala que un 70% de las mujeres adolescentes (15-19 años) que tienen relaciones sexualesno desean un ...


0 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 3 Votos ,5.39 Puntuación
rm_4tetas4tetas 32 H
6  Artículos
NO MENORES DE 30   29/4/2009

Ultimamente en la mayoria de las salas de chat la mayoria de las mujeres son mayores de 30 años y comunmente buscan relacionarse con hombres de la misma edad muy pocas tienen una platica con algun joven varon menor de 30 años , la mayoria ignoran o clausuran la camara por la edad ¿no seria mas gentil dicir no gracias? a tenerlos varios minutos esperando las respuestas de sus mensajes , en ...


0 Comentarios, 38 Vistas, 3 Votos ,3.43 Puntuación
rm_Rockdr007 39 H
4  Artículos
De chile, de mole y de manteca.   16/3/2009

He encontrado que las mujeres que se inscriben a esta página no necesariamente son modelos de belleza, eso es lo de menos a la hora del amor lo que sobra son piernas, pero últimamente me he encontrado a personas no muy ligeras de peso o que en su perfil escriben una cosa y al verlas en cam o en vivo nad que veer... aunque yo no soy flaco, ni un galanazo, si me describi los más cercano a lo que ...


1 Comentarios, 109 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.93 Puntuación
jiello 43 H
7  Artículos
que dificil es para un hombre el decir no gracias   3/10/2008

por lo menos en la sociedad donde vivo, se me vuelve muy complicado decirle no gracias a una mujer, y es que ademas es dificil que una mujer te lo proponga, y es mas dificil aun para ellas el aceptar una negativa, normalmente termina en un resentimiento total. Lo peor del caso es q muchas veces me termino arrepintiendo, porq despues digo q bruto, era de probar nomas a ver que pasaba. En tal caso, ...


4 Comentarios, 60 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.73 Puntuación
"Repuesta Automática"   21/9/2008

Hace dias se me ocurrió crear un mensaje como respuesta automática para los que me escriben a diario y es el siguiente: "Suelo responder mensajes que no estén salidos de tono, no respondo mensajes que considero vulgares ni groseros, si el tuyo no esta entre estos, ten por seguro que te respondere en cuanto te lea, a veces por la diferencia de horarios puede llegar tarde mi ...


0 Comentarios, 36 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.82 Puntuación
rm_jossexLuis 35 H
1  Artículo
NEGATIVA PAUSADA   1/9/2008

SUTIL Y GENTIL EN LA OFICINA, EN CASA UN EJEMPLO PARA LOS SOBRINOS, EN LA ESCUELA UN ALUMNO, QUE A PESAR DE NO LLAMAR MUCHO LA ATENCION, ESTA LLENO DE DESEOS ESCONDIDOS, NO SERE UN MATADOR, NO PODRE MATAR CON MIS PALABRAS, SOLO SE QUE BUSCO A LA CHICA IDEAL PARA COMPLACER ESTOS INSTINTOS QUE NO HE PODIDO NI HE QUERIDO SACAR CON ALGUIEN EN ESPECIAL, ES POSIBLE QUE SEAS TU.

...



0 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 1 Votos ,2.40 Puntuación
sandydecorazon 52 T
69  Artículos
saben ustedes, cuantos tipos de travestys existen?   17/4/2008

pues los hay homosexuales

los hay bisexuales

pero tambien los hay heterosexuales?

como yo , que me fascinan las prendas femeninas , ,, si.....

pero tambien , me fascinan , las mujeres, ,?

como a cualquier , hombre heterosexual , ,, ok..

y muchas gracias , por los que se han fijado en mi , ,, ,, pero con la pena , les digo , ,, bye


2 Comentarios, 79 Vistas, 15 Votos ,0.68 Puntuación
rm_acka2007 35 H
1  Artículo
negando a la cubana   14/3/2008

Hola, les quería contar una cosa que me ha pasado hace un par de años. Dicen que los tíos pensamos con la polla: cuando nos enseñan el chocho perdemos la cabeza. Bueno, pues no es así. Yo tengo novia. Una vez fui a trabajar en casa de una cubana, y la tía se me ha puesto a hablar de porno, lo mucho que la gusta el sexo y esas cosas. Y poco a poco se me ha acercado y ...


0 Comentarios, 90 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.51 Puntuación
no quiero sexo!!!   26/2/2008

creo que mas de uno no vera el articulo solo por el titulo... pero a mas de uno solo entrara por eso... el punto es el siguiente: cuantas veces hemos necesitado solo sentir el abrazo de nuestra pareja porque nos sentimos "extraños" y ella piensa que queremos sexo... cuantas veces nuestra pareja se "chipil" o sensible y necesita que la abrasemos y que le hagamos cariñitos, pero a la hora de ir ...


0 Comentarios, 15 Vistas, 2 Votos ,3.12 Puntuación
sandydecorazon 52 T
69  Artículos
he recibido muchisimas propuestas acerca de hacer sexo?   17/2/2008

la verdad estoy muy agradecida , por las personas que tuvieron la atencion de fijarse en mi.

pero con la pena , les digo que estan con la persona equivocada , muchas gracias .

yo solo busco amistades de adeveras y perdurables .

consejos positivos y buena vibra ok.

bye un beso de amistad para todos. bye sandy.


1 Comentarios, 73 Vistas, 16 Votos ,2.98 Puntuación
Y sin arrepentemientos...   14/11/2007

Que más vale un "no" a tiempo que una insatisfacción de ésas que dejan huella...


1 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 4 Votos ,2.86 Puntuación
ASpanishLover 53 H
4  Artículos
Una vez me enamoré de nuevo   26/1/2007

13 años con mi esposa y la confusión en mi cabeza. Y entonces encontré, por 10 días, a una mujer con la que me comuniqué física e intelectualmente de una forma que no recordaba hubiera conseguido nunca.
¿Por qué uno olvida lo que hubo cuando la tiene seguro? ¿Por qué ese amor, esa pasión, que un día llenaba su vida se queda escondida, como olvidada, cuando otra ...


0 Comentarios, 72 Vistas, 3 Votos ,4.90 Puntuación
rm_davexx00 28 H
11  Artículos
que sera   20/12/2006

una chava que te dice "no gracias" a la hora de las propuestas indecorosas en verdad eso es lo que quiere o se estara negando al instinto???? como sera.......??????


0 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 1 Votos ,2.40 Puntuación
rm_dragon_884 39 H
10  Artículos
Que hacer con los homosexuales?   8/7/2006

A mi me han contactado hombres que se interesan en mi perfil, yo soy heterosexual, pero se que estan personas tienen sus sentimientos, y me apena el tener que rechazarlos, por eso trato de hacerlo de una forma amable, no tengo nada en contra del homosexualismo, aceptaria a alguien como amigo, pero nada mas, el problema es que esa persona se mantenga como amigo y luego no se ilusione con ...


0 Comentarios, 67 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.80 Puntuación
littlegirlyuc 30 M
3  Artículos
Hombres...   12/6/2006

Hola
quiciera comentarles que llevo poco tiempo en esta pagina, apenas hace 2 dias me registre y me he dado cuenta de algo
los usuarios NO RESPETAN los perfiles de los demas, lo digo por lo siguiente:
8 de los 12 correos e invitaciones que he tenido, son de HOMBRES.
que acaso los gays reciben miles de correos de chicas?
...


2 Comentarios, 562 Vistas, 39 Votos ,4.30 Puntuación
Chekolai 33 H
5  Artículos
¡¡¡ Si se puede ¡¡¡¡   3/6/2005

Bueno, depende de que situacion se trate. Pero la mas comun es cuando aparece una tercera persona a tu relacion, al menos en mi caso fue facil decir que no ya que me encontraba totalmente enemorado de ella y aunque la tercera me ponia toda super facil ella era la que me invitava yo la evadia diciendo que no tenia dinero a lo que ella replicaba que ella pagaba y que no le importaba que ...


0 Comentarios, 98 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.63 Puntuación
como decir que no la segunda vez   2/6/2005

has tenido una cita que no ha funcionado como esperabas y te proponen otra. que debes hacer?


0 Comentarios, 187 Vistas, 1 Votos
Alborada 53 H
28  Artículos
Brumas...y nada mas.......   8/12/2004

Brumas...y nada mas........ <br> Te cría mia... y cuando abrí los brazos para estrecharte, te perdiste en la bruma de lo imposible...Quisiera odiarte pero no puedo...sé muy bien que si el destino no hubiera puesto ese eslabón en tu destino...serías mia, totalmente mia!!!.........


0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas, 7 Votos ,1.26 Puntuación
Alborada 53 H
28  Artículos
¡A un ser Anónimo!   20/11/2004

¡Hola amigo anónimo! Amigo mio. Sabes, aveces pienzo que es necesario que sucedan cosas que aparentemente ahislan a las personas, pero que dentro de su ser se habre la luz expectante de la curiosidad, si, expectantes cada día... sabemos donde encontrar lo que nos agrada ver o escuchar, como ser humano, tampoco soy ajeno a estas expectativas, y busco todos los días expectate mi ...


0 Comentarios, 26 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.94 Puntuación
silura99 36 M
3  Artículos‚ Puntuación 3.4
Do you really accept a "no, thank you"?   15/4/2019

I see a few people asking why can't women just say "no, thank you" instead of not replying? Well, here's this, not all people take gracefully. Some decide to berate you or to continually contact you after you've declined. I've had to say no to the same individuals multiple times until I've had to block them. Is okay? If someone doesn't respond to me, I take ...


2 Comentarios, 9 Vistas, 4 Votos ,2.86 Puntuación
Prylo189 36 H
6  Artículos‚ Puntuación 5.5
Messaging   15/4/2019

Someone tell me what doing wrong. I message people politely and introduce myself. I ask how they are doing day and offer to send a pic so they can see what i look like or most times just send a face pic. Still only 1 out of maybe 15 reply or even read my message. Any suggestions


5 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 1 Votos ,1.10 Puntuación
jackswallowsit 61 H
4  Artículos‚ Puntuación 6.9
Not 'no thanks' but 'can't now' ....   10/4/2019

I normally have to plan my playtimes, for very specific days and hours. Frequently I get into conversations with guys who get very rude when I can't drop things and ' now' to take care of their wants. not turning them down, just letting them know I have time constraints, like most folks have. I get every response from the usual 'you're missing a good thing' to the ...


0 Comentarios, 5 Vistas, 2 Votos ,1.04 Puntuación
Wondering Mind   7/4/2019

My mind wonders. Could I be Bi-sexual.I like a like looking dicks and sometimes get excited. I throb when I watch.


1 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.82 Puntuación
Saying no thanks, because , as imagined , couples are scarce.. Hurry up and get a gold account   7/4/2019

Nothing ever changes. Are there no real couples , anywhere?


0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas, 3 Votos ,1.47 Puntuación
theattu 23 H
2  Artículos
points   7/4/2019

just here for the points


1 Comentarios, 5 Vistas, 1 Votos ,1.10 Puntuación
TwanTseX27 34 H
4  Artículos
2019 Greetings   2/4/2019

ARE YOU RUDE NICE OR JUST GHOST A PERSON WHEN YOU TELL THEM NO THANKS?


1 Comentarios, 5 Vistas, 2 Votos ,0.34 Puntuación
Oscarmike12 25 H
5  Artículos
Why   29/3/2019

Why don't more women just say "no thanks"? It can be frustrating to figure if a woman wants to meetup or not. Not replying in I get for standard users, but gold members don't bother. Makes me want to delete this


3 Comentarios, 18 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.08 Puntuación
dan_is_wild2 49 H
5  Artículos
Why i came here   16/3/2019

I came to this site after i lost my wife to cancer. I was a lost man who was spoiled and loved at same time. I am here to learn what women of today want and what i can bring from the past to today and still enjoy . But to my shock after 4 years of great marrage that some women not all women on here are only after Itune cards or other things to have me buy for them. But im not here to buy ...


2 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 6 Votos ,1.94 Puntuación
ttazz316 54 H
8  Artículos
please be polite   9/3/2019

what is it girls can;t reply and just say not interested thanks


4 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.80 Puntuación
Love2Pleazer 42 H
5  Artículos
Scammer, fakes and frauds   8/3/2019

What is going here shaking my head? So many boys, scammer profiles and they're so aggressive like wtf!


3 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.02 Puntuación
Not wanting to meet   19/2/2019

I have always said honesty is the best policy unless you are cheating. If you make a date after meeting a person and then decide it is not for you, do you ghost them or be honest and say no thanks after more thought i am not looking for what you offer? It sounds so lame via text.


6 Comentarios, 38 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.17 Puntuación
L00king4fun54 31 P
1  Artículo
Stupid one lines don't deserve a response   17/2/2019

When someone sends a message saying "I want to fuck" Or "I'm horny" I don't think a response is needed. We try to respond to everyone but disrespectful messages aren't worth our time.


8 Comentarios, 48 Vistas, 18 Votos ,2.99 Puntuación
603BiFunCpl 35 P
1  Artículo
Basic Manners   10/2/2019

It's always better to just say something as simple as, not interested or not our type; instead of just ignoring the person(s) who decided to contact you.


4 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 18 Votos ,3.40 Puntuación
rejection   7/2/2019

how do you take rejection?


5 Comentarios, 36 Vistas, 15 Votos ,1.75 Puntuación
Txmedic79423 46 H
2  Artículos
Why is it so hard?   5/2/2019

I know not everyone is going to want to meet up, or even chat. But why can't people at least be civil and say they're not interested? sure this topic has been discussed ad nauseum, but it's really been burr in my saddle lately.


2 Comentarios, 26 Vistas, 14 Votos ,1.70 Puntuación
Someone Else's F Shack   2/2/2019

This is something that happened several years ago. I started talking to a woman on here and hit it off very well. After some erotic chat and phone conversation, we decided to meet in person. It was very exciting, because we had some great conversation. <br><br> Since I had roommates, I couldn't host easily. She provided me with the option to meet her at her apartment. I agreed. I ...


1 Comentarios, 58 Vistas, 16 Votos ,2.10 Puntuación
southernbbc89 30 H
2  Artículos
A lot of guys on here   1/2/2019

What i dont get is how or why guys hit me up with stuff like-- let me suck your dick and I try to be nice and say not my style and then get pissed. Its making me respond like more of dick that I want, but only way to get left alone.


6 Comentarios, 40 Vistas, 15 Votos ,2.52 Puntuación
barracuda05 49 H
1  Artículo
Does it hurt ot have proper manners?   27/1/2019

So, I was sitting here thinking, 'How hard is it really to just reply and say "No Thank You, I'm (We're) not interested." <br><br> I know there are people who will be ultimately be idiots and not take the simple straight forward hint, but those should be the exception and not the norm. <br><br> If we all were to make a concerted effort to be more ...


6 Comentarios, 38 Vistas, 20 Votos ,4.15 Puntuación
JoshRook7 23 H
4  Artículos
Saying No Half-Way   23/1/2019

It really needs to be understood that just because you said "yes" to sex, doesn't mean you're obligated to continue. <br><br> People get uncomfortable. They have second-thoughts, lose interest, or just decide they aren't ready. <br><br> And that's totally okay. <br><br> This especially applies to women, but for everyone out there - you ...


3 Comentarios, 35 Vistas, 13 Votos ,2.98 Puntuación
psylckr520 35 H
3  Artículos
a simple "no thank you"   21/1/2019

A simple "not interested" would be better as opposed to being ignore, but whatevs. <br><br> p.s. this is for points


5 Comentarios, 35 Vistas, 17 Votos ,3.55 Puntuación
xxxmedicxxx 46 H
1  Artículo
Why is it so hard?   12/1/2019

Why is it so hard for people to just say it?


3 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.48 Puntuación
Fogger312 50 H
5  Artículos
Be polite?   10/1/2019

Why is it so difficult to say "no thanks" if the person is not interested? It's frustrating enough being rejected, but there's no to completely ignore a request (unless they are harassing you). <br><br> Thoughts?


3 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.57 Puntuación
anotherfamousduo 52 P
1  Artículo
Don't be rude!   8/1/2019

I prefer responding to say "no thanks" rather than ignore someone. No one likes to be ignored.!


8 Comentarios, 37 Vistas, 12 Votos ,4.04 Puntuación
simplepleasuresz 51 H
9  Artículos
Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;)   31/12/2018

a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all. Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match. I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...


4 Comentarios, 37 Vistas, 13 Votos ,2.81 Puntuación
simplepleasuresz 51 H
9  Artículos
Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;)   31/12/2018

a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all. Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match. I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...


1 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 10 Votos ,2.39 Puntuación
BrisWarrior 37 H
5  Artículos
Men’s Sex On Premises   30/12/2018

I would often attend a sex on premises venue where men, often older men, get the opportunities to cruise dimly lit maze style halls and rooms in search of a cock to suck. I must admit that I get horny when attending these places but do not find old guys attractive, in fact only really have an amazing nterest in nice looking hot, large cocks. Anybody in the same boat?


1 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 12 Votos ,1.39 Puntuación
ttazz316 54 H
8  Artículos
are the girls really just looking for sex   26/12/2018

are the girls on this site really just looking for sex and why are their guys on here pretending to be girls


2 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.36 Puntuación
Starcock83 36 H
6  Artículos
Is it right to just ignore someone?   20/12/2018

Call me old fashioned but I feel that if smeone says hi to you in a chat setting, or Im even if you aren't interested you should say smething and not just ignore the person. m I wrong in this or is it right to just say ahhhh to hell with them....


3 Comentarios, 50 Vistas, 13 Votos ,2.81 Puntuación
Catfish   13/12/2018

No thanks can be tricky. Meeting someone for the first time and they look nothing like their pics that have been posted. The best way I feel to deal with that situation is to tell them that they misrepresented themselves.


0 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 16 Votos ,3.57 Puntuación
walkinbanana2 39 H
6  Artículos
Watching   12/12/2018

I have to, on a weekly basis, have to turn down fucking a girl with her husband watching. This must be way more common than I thought.


1 Comentarios, 29 Vistas, 12 Votos ,2.27 Puntuación
meincovky 44 H
4  Artículos
Hello out there   2/12/2018

I get it that free members have limited chats, but once in a while just saying "no thanks" to someone is helpful if you are being messaged first. Does help with the process of not hitting them up again....


3 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 16 Votos ,2.54 Puntuación
splitcase 38 H
6  Artículos
Bar room pick up.   24/11/2018

Last night I went to my local water hole. When I got there it was the same locals relaxing around the bar. About half way through my beer, a slender red head girl walked in. She sat down a few stools down from me wearing a form fitting white button down shirt and tight black jeans. When the bartender asked her for a drink, she said just water she was waiting for her date. ...


2 Comentarios, 39 Vistas, 17 Votos ,1.71 Puntuación
Taking no for an answer   8/11/2018

Why can’t men jus take no for answer? I myself respect it when a woman says no and I leave her alone. I have heard men and talked to men that say they will not take no for an answer and they will continue to push to get what they want. Men should just respect it when a woman tells them no. How many of you out there agree with this?


2 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 20 Votos ,3.64 Puntuación
lookn4fun482 42 H
1  Artículo
how to say not interested   27/10/2018

i have come across a few that i wasnt interested or they werent interested i dont have a problem saying it but you have some that juust end up disappearing instead of saying there not interested is it that hard for some to actually say it and be truthful


1 Comentarios, 28 Vistas, 15 Votos ,3.28 Puntuación
How to say 'no' after you meet up   18/10/2018

Hi, Sometimes you chat with someone and really hit it off. Unfortunately, when you meet up you just dont click. What is the nicest way to say no thank you without hurting anyone? thank you.


2 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.36 Puntuación
siouxceedee 60 H
2  Artículos
Be nice   14/10/2018

It seems people contact people but say nothing... of they just start with nasty openings.. Seem even though this site is to meet people ... I think being nice should be standard.. <br><br> fee members or paid members should get the same respect <br><br> be smart be nice be safe


1 Comentarios, 20 Vistas, 12 Votos ,3.33 Puntuación
Being pushy   10/10/2018

Why are the single men in here so damn pushy not all but definitely came across a few of them


4 Comentarios, 63 Vistas, 28 Votos ,4.78 Puntuación
BlackKnight71304 42 H
11  Artículos
BBC Rejection!   9/10/2018

I understand not everyone is interested in Black Cock and I don’t try to force it on any female. Ladies if it’s not your thing I understand but don’t insult us at the same time you are rejecting the BBC. We are all big girls and boys I would hope so insults are not needed. Now if you want to explore the BBC there is a way to do that as well. Hit me up and let me give you a tip!!


2 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 6 Votos ,1.66 Puntuación
DirtyBoi1423 23 H
2  Artículos
yes or f off?   24/9/2018

cant you just say no thank you? instead of telling someone to piss the fuck off and being a rude person. up your game and be respectfull


1 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.23 Puntuación
6ftsexyFun 35 H
3  Artículos
Bots! What’s up with the Bots?   19/9/2018

Okay so I can’t stand bots on sites. They drive me crazy! When your using a sit and you have to pay for sending messages, it really sucks when you start chatting with a bot, and don’t realize it at first. Why? Why do they do this? In all honesty I know why, but come on? Really?


2 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.73 Puntuación
mahesh1975foru 43 H
1  Artículo
Woman looking for money   4/9/2018

Lot of woman on the site who are looking just for money. Not as a result of a friendship here but as the criteria to have friendship.


7 Comentarios, 56 Vistas, 21 Votos ,4.24 Puntuación
n2udeep00 39 H
4  Artículos
If they are not your type.   4/9/2018

How do you say no without hurting anyone's feelings?


3 Comentarios, 50 Vistas, 19 Votos ,3.65 Puntuación
zeustaz316 55 H
4  Artículos‚ Puntuación 0.1
why can't the women on hear juat say not interested   2/9/2018

what's up with the girls on hear they start talking ask for pics and then just stop if they are not interested why not just say that it is not a big deal just called manners and being polite


2 Comentarios, 37 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.58 Puntuación
prositioned   1/9/2018

say no somebody might be in a sting


1 Comentarios, 12 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.19 Puntuación
PleasureBoy4All 41 H
1  Artículo
No thanks   31/8/2018

It's hard to get to know someone without chatting with them to see if you click. But once they say no thanks, I do my best to stop bugging them. <br><br> Sometimes I say no thanks but that's normally just to the perv guys, lol... <br><br> Hope you all respect others.


0 Comentarios, 9 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.71 Puntuación
Thehorneydevel21 21 H
1  Artículo
Life is how you make it   16/8/2018

Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make it happen only you can do it no one else


0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.84 Puntuación
smithjack81 35 H
1  Artículo
Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks"   9/8/2018

Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does it and theres something wrong with him.


4 Comentarios, 32 Vistas, 12 Votos ,2.98 Puntuación
Curvedthick9 43 H
1  Artículo
Why can't most people do that on here?   9/8/2018

You won't offend me by saying no thanks, or just not interested. Why are people on here just rude in general. At least say hi if someone is being courteous. Have some frickin manners. Just sayin.


1 Comentarios, 27 Vistas, 14 Votos ,3.46 Puntuación
snglguy9091 41 H
4  Artículos‚ Puntuación 0.3
Chemistry   29/6/2018

So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others feelings.


2 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 7 Votos ,3.30 Puntuación
Slickgf2412 36 H
1  Artículo
Cam play   26/6/2018

Why is everyone so afraid


0 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 12 Votos ,1.74 Puntuación
lookn4yu2day 67 H
18  Artículos
When The "No Thanks" is to online communications   23/6/2018

It is much easier for a person to give a "No Thanks" when a face-to-face meeting has never occurred. The less the communication before that "No Thanks" message...the easier the saying and the receiving on the other end of the "connection." <br><br> Yeah, I know..... all of this is "common sense." No newsworthy item there! However, remember... ...


0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 5 Votos ,4.12 Puntuación
lookn4yu2day 67 H
18  Artículos
When The "No Thanks" is to online communications   23/6/2018

It is much easier for a person to give a "No Thanks" when a face-to-face meeting has never occurred. The less the communication before that "No Thanks" message...the easier the saying and the receiving on the other end of the "connection." <br><br> Yeah, I know..... all of this is "common sense." No newsworthy item there! However, remember... ...


0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.51 Puntuación
lookn4yu2day 67 H
18  Artículos
When The "No Thanks" is to online communications   23/6/2018

It is much easier for a person to give a "No Thanks" when a face-to-face meeting has never occurred. The less the communication before that "No Thanks" message...the easier the saying and the receiving on the other end of the "connection." <br><br> Yeah, I know..... all of this is "common sense." No newsworthy item there! However, remember... ...


0 Comentarios, 12 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
Excluding the "No" in "No Thanks"   21/6/2018

Rejection is difficult for some to hear. As always, try to be polite and circumvent negative words. This includes "No." <br><br> Most people who I have met are very understanding and come across as being mature. <br><br> So, in lieu of saying "No", try to express my preferences and thank them for the compliment.


0 Comentarios, 4 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
BoiButt 41 H
3  Artículos
Be polite   17/6/2018

When somebody sends you a message about being interested in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just be polite and say “ no thank you “.


1 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.78 Puntuación
orallygivingguy 37 H
5  Artículos
How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time   15/6/2018

How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally met in person, without coming off rude?


1 Comentarios, 26 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.02 Puntuación
lovethsebigtits9 40 H
3  Artículos
when enough is enough   14/6/2018

when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks, should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some respect in this world.


0 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.23 Puntuación
Parka462 40 M
5  Artículos
Przyj\ciele   9/6/2018

http://AmigosCalientes.com.com


0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas, 2 Votos ,1.04 Puntuación
Rogueadventure2 47 P
1  Artículo
ouch   9/6/2018

I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to! LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get these after chatting for a while and then I never know what to say. I don't want to be rude ...


0 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.55 Puntuación
up4goodtimennm 45 H
4  Artículos
AmigosCalientes.com IM   30/5/2018

Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been read at least say no thank you and move on.


3 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 9 Votos ,3.00 Puntuación
ttazz316 54 H
8  Artículos
why do women not reply   26/5/2018

most of the women i send messages to don't reply they could at least say not interested or no thanks


7 Comentarios, 60 Vistas, 12 Votos ,3.33 Puntuación
Saying "No Thanks"   23/5/2018

If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested ... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks" or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might help others


5 Comentarios, 50 Vistas, 13 Votos ,3.31 Puntuación
GiveMeCurves84 35 H
7  Artículos
A difference between aggression and desperation   21/5/2018

I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br> I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy, overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.


0 Comentarios, 10 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.49 Puntuación
Monologue Responding to IM messages   17/5/2018

I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave us hanging.


1 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 1 Votos ,5.00 Puntuación
How Hard is it?   17/5/2018

This is just for points lol.


1 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.09 Puntuación
arealbadboy333 50 H
5  Artículos
People that don't respond   9/5/2018

How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll pass". With the sketchy performance of AmigosCalientes.com's Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry, not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing??? That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?


1 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 7 Votos ,4.06 Puntuación
conversations   7/5/2018

Why is it so hard to start a conversation in IM?


1 Comentarios, 16 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.09 Puntuación
i wish   5/5/2018

i wish people has the respect to say no thank-you thank-you


1 Comentarios, 12 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.02 Puntuación
IDang4321 34 H
12  Artículos
saying no   26/4/2018

just say no like the say in school


1 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.51 Puntuación
Courtesy   22/4/2018

Seems that when people aren't interested on here, that they don't even say no thanks. That would reduce harassing texts. You only have to tell me once.


7 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.14 Puntuación
TalentTaster 51 H
1  Artículo
Read and Respect the Profile   14/4/2018

I have made it clear in my profile as to my sexual orientation, preference. I enjoy doing webcast and interacting with the viewers. If you have seen any of the very few cast I have done I address the woman, but if i'm asked a question I'm going to answer or tell the guys to read the profile. I don't care who watches but if your not tipping or buzzing I'm going to block you. I ...


0 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.23 Puntuación
thicknrealfun1 37 H
2  Artículos
Persistence even after you say no thanks   3/4/2018

I get it quite a bit from couples... but the persistence these days when you say no thank you is crazy. I don't like reporting or ignoring people, but they continually think they are going to change you mind. This is especially the case with couples and gay men on here. <br><br> Anyone else running into this?


1 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.93 Puntuación
deepcream4u044 32 H
1  Artículo
What not to do.   12/2/2018

So if some takes the time out of their day to message me, and I still have a chat request remaining (yea it's ridiculous I need a chat request to REPLY to an incoming message, thanks new AmigosCalientes.com) even if I'm not interested if the person was at least some who I might have considered I like to answer and just say no thank you. What I don't like to do is just ignore them, leave the room ...


1 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 16 Votos ,3.72 Puntuación
gandchodh 34 H
3  Artículos
It's best to say no instead of creating   7/2/2018

I use this site frm almost eight years and found here a lot of fake ID's. And many mention they are here for real fun but when any one contact them they said they are here for fun but they were passing their tym.with chat only. So I think it's better to say no instead of making other fool.


0 Comentarios, 36 Vistas, 24 Votos ,6.65 Puntuación
iowabull008 44 H
2  Artículos
polite people   28/1/2018

I know this is a pay site and prohibitive to people who aren't paying. I would just like people to tell me they're no interested instead of seeing a pic and ghosting. I am an adult. it's not like we all haven't had rejection in our lives. <br><br> please just communicate. <br><br> Thank you


5 Comentarios, 41 Vistas, 18 Votos ,4.22 Puntuación
docklove1970 48 H
3  Artículos
BULLSHIT people are phoney and have NO backbone   14/1/2018

Let me tell you all something, we all find out the hard way sometimes. It comes down to ppl are not raised right. They don't have a backbone and common courtesy. What is right? Just say NO thank you, and move on. BUT, people play you a long, play fucking ring a round the posey, beat around the bush. Ultimately you have pissed off people.


4 Comentarios, 41 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.92 Puntuación
When you chat and find out the truth   5/1/2018

It’s tough when you see a pic for the first time after chatting a while, but it’s always best to be hst.


5 Comentarios, 59 Vistas, 16 Votos ,4.16 Puntuación
rm_hoganslogan 30 H
4  Artículos
Why dont people have basic coutesy to reply a IM   30/12/2017

If you are not keen to talk to someone. Why not have basic coutesy to atleast reply them.. <br><br> You read the message n ignore.. thats so bad


8 Comentarios, 60 Vistas, 11 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
zekkstrom 33 H
6  Artículos
Quick and easy   27/12/2017

One of the best ways is to simply say "Thank you, but I'm not interested. I wish you luck." This works great, as long as it is sincere. If people get upset at it, that isn't your fault, and you've done your part.


1 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.73 Puntuación
looking4uinroc2 46 H
11  Artículos
alone on the holidays sucks   22/12/2017

its hard when you meet someone and they are just not attracted or into you. I always just try be happy and move on but I always wonder why they don't like me. I wonder if it was just the way I look or if it is something I said I didn't say. I wonder if I could have said something different or if they just were not attracted to me or maybe its just the sound of my voice or the way I talk.


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.28 Puntuación
Iwannabeused 42 H
5  Artículos
So ummm   3/12/2017

Is it just me or are women very good at it? lol


0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.51 Puntuación
DOM_Mann80 38 H
6  Artículos
how do you say NO to your partner   17/11/2017

how do you say no to your partner when you don't want sexxx ?


3 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 3 Votos ,1.47 Puntuación
SavvyBurlyReal 39 H
7  Artículos
Lots of ‘bots’ or people just looking to make a quick buck   14/11/2017

It seems like when ever I have money I run into someone that wants money from me. I have no problem spending money on women but paying for sex is something that isnt in my book right now.


2 Comentarios, 15 Vistas, 4 Votos ,2.86 Puntuación
fun4all195756 51 H
5  Artículos
NOT JUST NO, BUT HELL NO   17/10/2017

I find it very funny how many people on here pose as couple, when it is just a bi guy. I also get a kick out of the number of women on here that are gun hoe till they find out you are not a young hunk. I myself don't see the need for a young hunk or a young woman to be here? I know they can find all the sex they want on their own. I was wondering how many people here find this site to be a ...


4 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.17 Puntuación
Shinso13 36 H
1  Artículo
Honesty before things get weird.   16/10/2017

Sometimes you will find couples that want to do things together, whether you are into that or not is not the point of this, it is more to say that if you are up front with your limits or what you want out of something instead of hoping you can sneak it in you will get a lot farther in life and relationships.


1 Comentarios, 18 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.01 Puntuación
sweetness9001 66 M
1  Artículo
Please if you can read my whole profile   8/10/2017

It seems I am having to say no thanks to a number of men simply because they can't or don't read my whole profile. I am a young 65 year old who does prefer a younger man. As my profile states though please no one under 30 or over 55. It is not that difficult to understand yet I am having to say no thank you to a number of men. I am always polite say hello then tell them sorry no the ...


7 Comentarios, 112 Vistas, 17 Votos ,4.54 Puntuación
Politeness   20/9/2017

I always appreciate when someone says no thanks if I page them on IM. If someone pages me and I dont want to chat I always let them know instead of ignoring them.


1 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.94 Puntuación
Just decent   16/8/2017

How many times have you messaged someone and gotten no reply? I always answer my messages even if it is to say "No Thanks" at least then the other person has an answer. It is just common decency.


3 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 9 Votos ,3.21 Puntuación
totalreelielitt 40 H
4  Artículos
Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made...   13/8/2017

Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself. The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found out that I'm superman compared to his ...


1 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 2 Votos ,1.73 Puntuación
bigboystwo2 48 H
11  Artículos
gotta be gentle   24/7/2017

some come ready to play.. so if you don't want to, ,, ,, be nice.


1 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 7 Votos ,1.00 Puntuación
ebonylover2019 51 H
6  Artículos
funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!!   17/7/2017

saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.

most women on AmigosCalientes.com are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!

as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy pleasing people sexually, I am all in!


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 9 Votos ,3.00 Puntuación
Lukin4allofU 55 H
11  Artículos
Is it so difficult?   2/7/2017

Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting them.

Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!

Shameful!!!! ...


1 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 14 Votos ,3.30 Puntuación
Maks1960 58 H
3  Artículos
why cant people   26/6/2017

Every time I try chatting most will not answer. If they are not interested why cant they say so.


7 Comentarios, 73 Vistas, 15 Votos ,1.75 Puntuación
Respeitar o não!   24/6/2017

A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível, ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental para a relação ser prazerosa, ...


1 Comentarios, 9 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.47 Puntuación
rimee59 49 H
10  Artículos
Two Guys   12/6/2017

I was offered one time to meet two guys at a park. I told them I was not interested in that. Then one guy was talking to me and asked if I would just meet him for an exchange blowjob. I said I would consider that. So we made arrangements to meet. The park was about 40 miles to get to for each of us. When I got there he had a camper trailer attached. He was parked in one of the more inside the ...


1 Comentarios, 151 Vistas, 18 Votos ,4.22 Puntuación
lickforher69 20 H
1  Artículo
no to a bad night   17/4/2017

when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up for having a shit ton of drugs in her car


1 Comentarios, 20 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.16 Puntuación
Xxentric_1 44 M
6  Artículos
Don't knock it   10/4/2017

Don't knock it till you try it, don't judge it before you've had a chance to understand it don't deny it before you've had a chance to accept it.. I think that it's rude when somebody hit you up even if they are outside spectrum of Desire or expectations as far as what you're looking for on this site or every day in the world. I think the bypass somebody or not consider them simply because of ...


8 Comentarios, 114 Vistas, 23 Votos ,4.53 Puntuación
sexylund119 33 H
9  Artículos
no thanks   1/4/2017

when u say o any one for some of work u r happy


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 3 Votos
izzynshe 68 P
1  Artículo
Manners   23/1/2017

We recently became members to this site... We have gotten several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that have commented and sent us emails and we have found that even though we didnt request single men they ...


7 Comentarios, 139 Vistas, 16 Votos ,4.89 Puntuación
msusoccer 40 H
1  Artículo
emailing   15/1/2017

Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email, shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response? What happened to common decency?


11 Comentarios, 77 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.23 Puntuación
tght14u03 47 H
5  Artículos
Meeting up   21/12/2016

I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors. No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have never had a problem meeting in person and either you are into them and great or one of you is not into the other and gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see how hard ...


4 Comentarios, 53 Vistas, 10 Votos ,4.78 Puntuación
Photo/Icon (optional)   21/11/2016

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1 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 3 Votos ,3.92 Puntuación
ussion topics are for original mat   21/11/2016

ussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that may have been publish


1 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 3 Votos ,0.49 Puntuación
sexaddictdon 61 H
42  Artículos
Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay!   16/11/2016

While riding the train downtown last evening (yes we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles) to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...


3 Comentarios, 144 Vistas, 27 Votos ,5.45 Puntuación
sexaddictdon 61 H
42  Artículos
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it?   1/11/2016

SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once or twice every year. They were both in ...


1 Comentarios, 92 Vistas, 6 Votos ,5.07 Puntuación
Inheatat46 52 M
4  Artículos
This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me   30/10/2016

This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me. Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began going over and over again about being videoed ...


1 Comentarios, 56 Vistas, 10 Votos ,4.38 Puntuación
ItsRight4now 42 M
1  Artículo
We all have different tastes   15/10/2016

I think it should be fine to just message back saying you are simply not interested. I have had people tell me they aren't interested for one reason or another and I think you just have to remember that we are all individuals with individual taste. How many of us would be left out if we all had to fit into a specific mold? That being said I also don't think people should get all pissed off when ...


5 Comentarios, 58 Vistas, 12 Votos ,4.21 Puntuación
1BigWetPhatKat1 53 M
15  Artículos
SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN...   15/10/2016

Hi my fellow AmigosCalientes.com brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


5 Comentarios, 82 Vistas, 19 Votos ,7.08 Puntuación
OneLustyGuy 44 H
6  Artículos
The other way around   29/9/2016

Typically, more commonly than not, men are the ones being rejected when approaching someone of interest, for this or that reasons. Reasons are not really the subject of my post. But I was curious, how often does it happen to the ladies? how did you girls react to the rejection? Did you think it was acceptable, totally unfair, did you get upset or were you oblivious to it and moved on as fast as ...


2 Comentarios, 24 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.25 Puntuación
notbender2 47 H
4  Artículos
Is it rude to say "No Thanks"?   16/9/2016

I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank you" and follow it with a full stop.

In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at "no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will get used to it.

You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you." Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...


1 Comentarios, 36 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.65 Puntuación
petpan2000 52 H
17  Artículos
being polite   12/9/2016

we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...

this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not - say no, no thanks or not my type...

I understand that this refers mainly to responses from women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further bother the ladies on this ...


1 Comentarios, 14 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.25 Puntuación
jrhammer44224 37 H
3  Artículos
Personal Preference versus Racism   30/8/2016

I'm all about equality in life, every human being has a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness. I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people approach their ethical practices towards others, but it is behavior that transcends race and creed.

That being said, I was recently approached on another site by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...


4 Comentarios, 42 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.63 Puntuación
Secretsforus2015 33 H
5  Artículos
The Best Ways to Say No!   30/8/2016

So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the "best way" to say no to someone she is not interested in.

I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.

Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know "I am not interested' but at the same time get a man to stop messaging you over ...


3 Comentarios, 29 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.78 Puntuación
kedde1988 30 H
1  Artículo
getting ignored   29/8/2016

I hate when I send a PM or chatrequest and never get any answer. I think that its common respect to at least tell me "No thanks i´m not interested" instead of ignoring me


4 Comentarios, 29 Vistas, 7 Votos ,6.10 Puntuación
spcmny 53 H
9  Artículos
Just be Candid   26/8/2016

One of the more difficult things we encounter is to 'not feel the same way' as someone we might meet. In other words- we simply are not attracted to them and would prefer not having intimate relations. How best to let someone down

In my experience candor with compassion is the best way. We are all humans with many insecurities and doubts. No one is perfect and no one is for everyone. ...


0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 2 Votos ,5.20 Puntuación
Tea compared to sex   26/8/2016

If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time you are together with this person.

The same goes with sex.


1 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.02 Puntuación
RhymesWithSassy 44 T
3  Artículos
SENSITIVE EGOS   25/8/2016

Some people just don't take "no thanks" very well. If someone gets on your nerves...

My advice:

When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members) so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities). Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...


1 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 3 Votos ,3.43 Puntuación
nerdygirl721 29 M
2  Artículos
Sorry, Ill have to decline   15/8/2016

I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at least there is still fun to be had.


2 Comentarios, 43 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.58 Puntuación
ohmamma1 31 H
2  Artículos
what happened?   7/8/2016

you know it really bites when you're trying to just say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time and points trying to get a message through to the person and not understanding why this isn't working?


1 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.41 Puntuación
EOOkuro 25 H
2  Artículos
Fake   24/7/2016

Why are their so many fake profiles. I wish their was away to eliminate them from all these sites completely. I have to say no not because we arent a good fit but just because of the stupid profiles.


0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 1 Votos ,3.70 Puntuación
pariapos 36 H
1  Artículo
hayır   12/7/2016

hayır


0 Comentarios, 0 Vistas, 0 Votos
To many   12/7/2016

Where the real woman its to many man trying to get at me. I'm not gay


1 Comentarios, 10 Vistas, 2 Votos
JR20163 35 H
5  Artículos
Is it that hard to say no thanks?   10/7/2016

Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response just saying your not interested?


4 Comentarios, 17 Vistas, 0 Votos
toungeman4woman 63 H
7  Artículos
changes on AmigosCalientes.com   19/6/2016

So about three days ago AmigosCalientes.com was at it again change the cam vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here new management or what


1 Comentarios, 12 Vistas, 0 Votos
It is better   14/6/2016

To say no thanks than to simply ignore. Most people will at least try to remember and not bother you again if you can be honest enough to say "no thanks".


6 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 6 Votos ,4.79 Puntuación
toungeman4woman 63 H
7  Artículos
AmigosCalientes.com CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS   13/6/2016

As modt Standard members now know AmigosCalientes.com is charging point soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC


3 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 2 Votos ,4.50 Puntuación
sexaddictdon 61 H
42  Artículos
An older man and the younger woman .....   20/5/2016

Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date.

So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I am now called a pervert or creepy guy.

Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many people in ...



7 Comentarios, 242 Vistas, 15 Votos ,3.90 Puntuación
funsmartfriendly 50 P
4  Artículos
5 Tips to Make "No Thanks" Easier   15/5/2016

It's more fun to say yes than no. Unfortunately you will encounter the latter more often. The million dollar question is how to let others know it's no?

Here are 5 tips we try to follow in response to a first date. Yoda would tell us to "do" not "try" but we all can't be sages like Yoda.

Oh, and yes, some of these won't work when you are being propositioned to play ...



0 Comentarios, 67 Vistas, 5 Votos ,4.12 Puntuación
fashionablegma 75 M
22  Artículos‚ Puntuación 7.5
How do you   11/5/2016

say you are not interested in the best possible way


4 Comentarios, 47 Vistas, 13 Votos ,4.49 Puntuación
SeanTheDon3 23 H
10  Artículos
Home   6/5/2016

I'm bored and want points


0 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 4 Votos ,1.30 Puntuación
psbiguy 59 H
3  Artículos
Whats the best way to say not interested.   27/4/2016

I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude, just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.


1 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 2 Votos ,3.12 Puntuación
Neil1980s 30 H
1  Artículo
Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"?   7/4/2016

With so many people from all over the world on this site, it's fair to say you'll find someone you're interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's also fairly likely that that person may not be interested in meeting you, for whatever reason.

That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you at last reply to it, if only to ...


8 Comentarios, 63 Vistas, 6 Votos ,4.22 Puntuación
Hamiltonman1094 40 H
14  Artículos
when you hear no thanks?   4/4/2016

When you hear no thanks


3 Comentarios, 21 Vistas, 1 Votos ,2.40 Puntuación
Wantodouto123 55 H
2  Artículos
Do you have morals!   26/3/2016

OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago. I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway I made my way to the bathroom when ...


3 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 3 Votos ,4.90 Puntuación
TabithaBeau 43 M
1  Artículo
being Gentle   23/3/2016

my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding. There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.


4 Comentarios, 37 Vistas, 14 Votos ,5.06 Puntuación
Lizzy6969 50 M
2  Artículos
Doesn't matter how you say it..........   26/2/2016

It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation. I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't help either cause they continue to email ...


9 Comentarios, 79 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.58 Puntuación
You have to say what you mean....   1/2/2016

There are some people who think that "no" is the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them. Some people believe if you say "no" you will lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put you in a poor position.

So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...


2 Comentarios, 27 Vistas, 10 Votos ,5.38 Puntuación
You have to say what you mean....   1/2/2016

There are some people who think that "no" is the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them. Some people believe if you say "no" you will lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put you in a poor position.

So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...


0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas, 2 Votos ,1.73 Puntuación
jacobmille565565 34 H
3  Artículos
They get there and they aren't what you expected   21/1/2016

Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone from AmigosCalientes.com over with adult fun in mind only to find they are not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe there was something that just turned you off when they finally got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?


11 Comentarios, 155 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.74 Puntuación
TheOnlyHotspot 40 P
5  Artículos
I might be too blunt   13/1/2016

If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm sorry but it's not happening

NO THANKS


4 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.80 Puntuación
THETRUTH575 40 H
11  Artículos
Temptation NOT   5/1/2016

Remembering my fun days i just sit back and smile. Always been great at showing my passion when i have sex. Saying this to say i have had a lot of unforgettable times. But time stops for no one if you don't take care of your self it shows. So when a old sex partner hits me up on social media I look sometimes and be like damn what happened. No thanks even if i remember how delightful your pussy ...


0 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 0 Votos
rm_WERYRYIO 42 H
1  Artículo
YES or NO   13/12/2015

we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life


2 Comentarios, 20 Vistas, 4 Votos ,1.30 Puntuación
KIngofAces5 21 H
1  Artículo
Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest   11/11/2015

This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone. Because they thought they may be interested in them or may possibly give them a chance however when the individual decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...


1 Comentarios, 30 Vistas, 10 Votos ,4.38 Puntuación
rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection   30/10/2015

some people just do not like to accept "i don't like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case? one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning


2 Comentarios, 22 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.63 Puntuación
rm_NOPoet30 67 H
51  Artículos
NO!   29/10/2015

Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that = NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless, but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble. Listen and comply.


4 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
clubg24 77 P
1  Artículo
JUST SAY "NO".   8/10/2015

Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for something as serious as giving my body to someone for their pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are desperate to get laid your expectations ...


10 Comentarios, 155 Vistas, 31 Votos ,6.50 Puntuación
1BigWetPhatKat1 53 M
15  Artículos
Traveled the Road Less Traveled   4/10/2015

Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major lessons.

As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.

Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and we all know that the but ...


3 Comentarios, 74 Vistas, 11 Votos ,4.48 Puntuación
Hotplombier34 37 H
1  Artículo
FILLES open sur la rivesud de montreal ??   19/9/2015

Yas tu du mondes sul party a soir


0 Comentarios, 2 Vistas, 2 Votos ,5.20 Puntuación
SoCarolinaMan 60 H
2  Artículos
How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up?   12/9/2015

Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter and they do not show up, what do you do?


4 Comentarios, 39 Vistas, 9 Votos ,4.07 Puntuación
TwoPlusOne4Funnn 34 P
1  Artículo
whoa can we meet you before your genitals   6/9/2015

Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything about you yet...immediate turn off


8 Comentarios, 45 Vistas, 11 Votos ,6.35 Puntuación
1BigWetPhatKat1 53 M
15  Artículos
Male Head vs. Female Head   28/8/2015

This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012

I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude here on AmigosCalientes.com. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor. 4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.

This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...


4 Comentarios, 82 Vistas, 17 Votos ,6.24 Puntuación
rm_DeAnnaGray22 37 T
1  Artículo
Harsh Articulation   15/8/2015

In response to the email I received asking if I am interested in you I will begin by stating that I read your profile thoroughly in an effort to offer a no ‘bs’ and sincere answer. Typically I would simply not take the time to read through a profile without a profile picture attached. It shows a lack of confidence and conviction. That, in and of itself, is less attractive than the homeliest ...


4 Comentarios, 48 Vistas, 8 Votos ,4.87 Puntuación
Say No Gracefully   21/6/2015

If something is not working out, just let the other person know as soon as possible. When you tell them, be as gracious as possible. Thank then for what they have done for you in the past and/or pay them a compliment. Then, gently let them know that things are not working out, why they are not working out, and then tell them that things must end. When you tell them the reasons, try not to blame ...


6 Comentarios, 41 Vistas, 12 Votos ,5.98 Puntuación
Women don't have a patent on preference   1/6/2015

There's no doubt that the man to woman ratio on this site is 500/20. That means a man has a 4% chance of actually getting as much attention as a woman on here. This doesn't include couple status. The women seem to be the smart ones on here. The ones worth talking to are selective, as a man should be. Some people just don't get it though. All I can do is shake my head when I hear a woman talk ...


6 Comentarios, 70 Vistas, 9 Votos ,5.14 Puntuación
rm_fun2play6709 44 M
1  Artículo
But they won't go away!   16/5/2015

I have met a few guys on this site. I usually message back and forth, then either make a decision whether I want to continue on or cut the ties. Behavior that is persistent, constantly messaging me on my phone while I'm asleep or at work...ugh! This is why when I get messages from guys I know there is not a chance in hell we will have any chemistry, I don't respond. I also have a message that ...


4 Comentarios, 71 Vistas, 17 Votos ,4.12 Puntuación
girly4girlyfun 44 M
1  Artículo
I agree with something SensuousShades said.....   1/5/2015

If I am approached in a polite respectful manner....I will likely respond in the same way. You get what you give.

If you repeatedly email me "hey lets fuck", "me in ur pussy" Or "come suck my cock"... You will get nothing from me. Honestly, I don't "owe" anyone anything if I don't even know them. That's part of the territory in this community. If you don't get a response......don't be ...


6 Comentarios, 62 Vistas, 19 Votos ,7.21 Puntuación
SensuousShades 34 P
3  Artículos
I suppose   18/3/2015

The way respond to unwanted emails or IMs is based on the request we've received. If the person messaging us is polite we'll respond with "thank you for your interested, but you aren't what we're looking for."

Sometimes people say things that we can't actually respond to so we leave those messages unanswered. Messages like "Hi, I want to cum on your face" don't get responses.


6 Comentarios, 68 Vistas, 17 Votos ,6.24 Puntuación
lookin4funinBC9 58 H
2  Artículos
At least say No!   13/3/2015

Just wish if you contact someone they would say No! Saying nothing is worse.


10 Comentarios, 105 Vistas, 15 Votos ,4.36 Puntuación
1HORNYOLDBUGGER2 54 H
3  Artículos
How to let down some unwanted suitor.   4/3/2015

Ever have this happen to you.. You check out your e-mail and find someone from the same sex hitting on you, or a sexually unattractive member wanting you to have an encounter with them. Face it the world is a crap-shoot. That's the adventure called: romance. How to not to seem rude and decline the offer. Just say in a polite manner, " I'm flattered that you have found me attractive, but I'm not ...


10 Comentarios, 86 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.17 Puntuación
Mean People Suck   1/3/2015

I've been here for while. I've been successful. I had a lot of fun, and I've met some very special ladies. I think about each one as a bottle of wine, the bottle that I shared with them: Chardonnay, Riesling, a particularly good vintage of South African Wine, and yes even a Merlot. I've also met some real jerks, at least on line.

I have sent at least 200 emails to which I received no ...


4 Comentarios, 59 Vistas, 5 Votos ,5.10 Puntuación
IM   28/1/2015

i am a charming guy trying to make conversation and too many times i get someone just suddenly end an IM conversation. isn't there a more polite way to say we should end this?


2 Comentarios, 18 Vistas, 1 Votos ,2.40 Puntuación
fredericton_4fun 34 H
10  Artículos
This has probably has been discussed alot but.   17/12/2014

How do you best say your not interested in another couple in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....


2 Comentarios, 47 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.14 Puntuación
Bbcnmad 37 H
2  Artículos
I think this might mess our friendship up   18/11/2014

Tell them that there a really great person but our friendship means more to me then just a hook up


1 Comentarios, 61 Vistas, 6 Votos ,2.51 Puntuación
rm_robpsf415 27 H
12  Artículos
Saying No   13/11/2014

How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?


14 Comentarios, 105 Vistas, 12 Votos ,3.86 Puntuación
rm_goodsxwithu 53 P
10  Artículos
Too much   12/11/2014

Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles that we're not interested in.


5 Comentarios, 71 Vistas, 13 Votos ,4.15 Puntuación
Using IM   8/11/2014

I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?


12 Comentarios, 108 Vistas, 9 Votos ,4.49 Puntuación
kimdan4fun 35 P
10  Artículos
Testimonials   7/11/2014

Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given you a testimonial?


5 Comentarios, 49 Vistas, 7 Votos ,5.08 Puntuación
capecodhottie4 30 M
10  Artículos
To thank or not to thank   6/11/2014

I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM is working.


3 Comentarios, 63 Vistas, 18 Votos ,5.85 Puntuación
pilloprncess4 43 M
1  Artículo
What's the best way to say, I'm not interested.   3/11/2014

I get a lot of men that are not in my desired target (too old, couples, everything but single, live too far away) messaging me. I put in my profile specifically what I'm looking for but the majority of contacts I get are not what I'm looking for. What's the best way to say, no thanks I'm interested or don't hit me up.


3 Comentarios, 65 Vistas, 9 Votos ,3.64 Puntuación
prettyinpink838 31 P
6  Artículos
No   31/10/2014

Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially with single guys.


1 Comentarios, 41 Vistas, 5 Votos ,4.12 Puntuación
rm_3xthefun99 32 P
4  Artículos
Blocked!!!   21/10/2014

There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these guys, just block them period.


2 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 11 Votos ,4.29 Puntuación
It is always better.   16/10/2014

It is always better to know whether a person likes you or not..Or better to tell another person that you do not like them. Why leave a person hanging. If you go to a meet and the person is not the same as the picture, or is just someone you do not feel is what you are looking for, then let them know. I prefer to know and have had a few ladies tell me why and it makes me understand their point ...


2 Comentarios, 24 Vistas, 6 Votos ,5.36 Puntuación
funcouplerus2 33 P
5  Artículos
No thanks.   15/10/2014

Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys? We have jobs we don't need another one answering all the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.


10 Comentarios, 77 Vistas, 19 Votos ,4.84 Puntuación
MovingOn001 61 H
9  Artículos
The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies   14/10/2014

Like anyone who has been on AmigosCalientes.com for any length of time and has tried to make contact with someone, I have received my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies. I have been told however, that my response to those "No Thanks" replies is quite different than what most women receive from those kinds of replies.

I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No Thanks". I do not whine or ...


1 Comentarios, 68 Vistas, 12 Votos ,4.92 Puntuación
thorped11 37 H
1  Artículo
Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining   11/10/2014

What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash of a "sore loser" along with it?


5 Comentarios, 43 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.53 Puntuación
rextaylor941 48 H
1  Artículo
Honesty the best policy?   11/10/2014

If you are not interested, what's the best way to say...No Thanks! Ignore someone or just say no?


4 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.37 Puntuación
MorganJ 49 M
2  Artículos
Since you asked...   30/9/2014

As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks" page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page were all regarding the fact that women here often don't give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed. I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in the future "why are women so rude" questions, but here goes ...


7 Comentarios, 113 Vistas, 18 Votos ,3.81 Puntuación
Why does this seem to be so difficult....   21/9/2014

I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so many people just don't have the time to reply with a polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...


7 Comentarios, 84 Vistas, 12 Votos ,1.39 Puntuación
hotasiantaiwan 30 M
12  Artículos
CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR DIRTY SEX MIND?   8/9/2014

A couple of years ago I was really into nipples. Human nipples in particular (you wanted to take it there). I loved the way my partner’s nips felt up against my skin, and the way mine felt against their man-chest and lips. I loved the sensation and the eroticism of the little weird evolutionary phenomenon. I think my curiosity turned into a playful exploration of all the cool things you could ...


5 Comentarios, 118 Vistas, 22 Votos ,4.93 Puntuación
sweetboi1234 28 H
10  Artículos
avoid shit   4/9/2014

Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no


1 Comentarios, 28 Vistas, 9 Votos ,2.14 Puntuación
It has to work for both or not at all   4/9/2014

Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...


4 Comentarios, 84 Vistas, 3 Votos ,5.39 Puntuación
Ebonyforwhite 43 M
1  Artículo
Do men read profiles at all   2/9/2014

Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking for only women to play with but these men seem to think they can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black men s


6 Comentarios, 81 Vistas, 13 Votos ,4.82 Puntuación
rm_KidP09 27 H
2  Artículos
Saying No   29/8/2014

When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming at you how do you let them down easy?


4 Comentarios, 45 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.80 Puntuación
rm_tnhotcock469 36 H
1  Artículo
Being Polite   25/8/2014

I wish that people on this site would try a little to be polite. If somebody sends you a message and you are not interested in them; just respond back and say that you appreciate their interest in you, but you are not interested.

I do not think it is very nice to just ignore their message. Think of it like this: they found you attractive enough to take the time to send a message, you ...


13 Comentarios, 108 Vistas, 25 Votos ,2.69 Puntuación
BBWFREAK856 36 M
9  Artículos
not interested   18/8/2014

Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend? It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.


4 Comentarios, 44 Vistas, 16 Votos ,2.25 Puntuación
Second Encounter   17/8/2014

How do you let someone know that you're not interested in a second encounter?


2 Comentarios, 48 Vistas, 4 Votos ,1.30 Puntuación
kittykitty05 47 M
3  Artículos
The best way   15/8/2014

What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that many will send back a response that mimics the attitude that the interest is given?


4 Comentarios, 54 Vistas, 9 Votos ,5.56 Puntuación
Ways to not say "no"   23/7/2014

If you send someone a friend request and your YIM and then suddenly start ignoring all messages, even those that say "Hey, it's ok if you are not interested, JUST LET ME KNOW, " that is rude. Please just say "Sorry, I am really not interested in pursuing anything further with you." Believe me, most people on here are mature enough to say in response, "OK, good luck, " and move on to the next ...


12 Comentarios, 70 Vistas, 10 Votos ,2.39 Puntuación
Wittyneel 47 P
3  Artículos
Hypocrisy?   12/7/2014

AmigosCalientes.com has been a good platform for like minded people to get to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are misleading. The response one gets is so different that what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities and in general the circumstances it would not be possible to always meet in person. The big ...


4 Comentarios, 85 Vistas, 7 Votos ,4.06 Puntuación
NuBoyToy4u 33 H
10  Artículos
just say . . .   8/7/2014

no.

i've already had enough to eat.

thanks though.

k.

bai.


2 Comentarios, 13 Vistas, 3 Votos
kcutemilf 51 M
1  Artículo
The Polite No Thank you   5/7/2014

So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're not interested! What do you do?

Well, from experience that my significant other has had on this site, most people just ignore the other person if they're not interested.

I am one of the types that believe that's not ...


10 Comentarios, 121 Vistas, 28 Votos ,6.73 Puntuación
No Reply Is a Message Also!   27/6/2014

That's what the blogger wrote on my blog awhile back: "No reply is also a reply." I wonder about that really? I mean, I know it could be, but I also have found that days later after I have made an inquiry with someone by sending them an introductory email, they respond and not always in a negative fashion.

"I've just been so inundated by emails." one sweet lady wrote. Another said she ...


4 Comentarios, 40 Vistas, 4 Votos ,4.80 Puntuación
bryan01962 54 H
3  Artículos
Why is it so hard to reply   15/6/2014

Why do people, women, never reply to messages even if just to say "sorry no thanks". Surely it cannot that hard to do.


8 Comentarios, 123 Vistas, 18 Votos ,3.40 Puntuación
vonoberfen 52 H
3  Artículos
I listen to NO   14/6/2014

I listen when someone tells me no. I respect their choice, and will ask, if it is appropriate, what led to their decision. I prefer conversation to conflict, and think that feedback allows me to make changes if needed. However, that doesn't mean I won't ever ask again! There is a place for persistence, and I have even been called stubborn (really). I had a work place encounter that ...


0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas, 4 Votos ,3.63 Puntuación
rm_Fort4084 32 H
24  Artículos
women   2/4/2014

Women on this site are such ass wipes if u dou wanna take to a guy wen he sends a message tel them that don't not send a message and then I keep replieyin thinkin u didn't get my massage and then al of a sudden am a freak yr such ass hole


15 Comentarios, 166 Vistas, 18 Votos ,0.53 Puntuación
sckrump1234 48 H
1  Artículo
be nice   16/2/2014

give some kind of response, let them know u got message, or they might keep mailing


3 Comentarios, 62 Vistas, 5 Votos ,2.49 Puntuación
LIKESTOLICKMOORE 46 H
29  Artículos
Everyone On AmigosCalientes.com has been really, really polite to me   3/2/2014

People have either said no thanks and said why, or they've said, later and then contacted me later to get together.

I love this site, it's a great place to meet people.

I've tried some other sites and didn't have any luck whatsoever.


3 Comentarios, 58 Vistas, 9 Votos ,4.28 Puntuación
annie444u 52 P
196  Artículos
It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them   23/1/2014

Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.

We've had a hard time with three or four single guys - our add clearly states no single men but they continue to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut, a whore and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile soon disappeared from AmigosCalientes.com.

Since then ...


3 Comentarios, 66 Vistas, 11 Votos ,4.10 Puntuación
annie444u 52 P
196  Artículos
It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them   23/1/2014

Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.

We've had a hard time with three or four single guys - our add clearly states no single men but they continue to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut, a whore and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile soon disappeared from AmigosCalientes.com.

Since then ...


3 Comentarios, 41 Vistas, 9 Votos ,4.92 Puntuación
How many 'No Thanks' can you take?   20/1/2014

Browsing down the categories to see where I should post this and the SAYING 'NO THANKS' heading waved and whistled at me..... Been married 35 years and it is a very strong marriage with some severe tests along the way; great highs, painful lows and buckets of tears and laughter along the way. We are very close and are best friends and the only secret I have from my wife is my registration on ...


5 Comentarios, 101 Vistas, 4 Votos ,2.47 Puntuación
matrix976 40 H
10  Artículos
How do you say No?   28/10/2013

Do you take the time to right back to the person and say why you aren't interested? Do you just reply with a simple NO? Do you reply with a rude turn down? Or do you just ignore the emailer if you're not interested.


12 Comentarios, 152 Vistas, 16 Votos ,3.42 Puntuación
wildcatr27 47 M
11  Artículos‚ Puntuación 1.2
confused i am   23/9/2013

so many times men complain they do not get a reply from women either by email or on the IM chat.

well explain this.... as i have just been lectured by an 18yr old boy that i was rude for accepting his chat request and explaining my preferences to him, several times

he was then abusive and told me i was wasting his time by accepting the chat

so we get criticized when we ...


11 Comentarios, 141 Vistas, 22 Votos ,5.41 Puntuación
TomRakewell 31 H
10  Artículos
Constructive   18/9/2013

Do you give constructive criticism when saying no?


4 Comentarios, 51 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.55 Puntuación
how to say it and not be rude   6/8/2013

there seems to be a culture that says saying no is insulting, i have to disagree, asserting your right to make the choice you want without fear of peer pressure is fundamental part of life. admittedly i dont get to say no much on here!


0 Comentarios, 29 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.93 Puntuación
CO_adventures 32 H
7  Artículos
If there is just no attraction...   21/7/2013

One of the tougher reasons to just say, especially if a woman on this site is showing interest and there is just no attraction towards her, but in the few cases, I have tried to be honest instead of just leaving it go. Thoughts?


6 Comentarios, 83 Vistas, 7 Votos ,2.79 Puntuación
hawg4fun13 36 H
15  Artículos
Safe Sex   9/7/2013

Play Safe!!!!


1 Comentarios, 27 Vistas, 5 Votos ,3.80 Puntuación
promexa01 28 H
10  Artículos
¿Qué no harías?   7/7/2013

¿Qué no te gustaría hacer?


0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
rm_xxx736581520 37 H
4  Artículos
ok   27/3/2013

It hurts a little but its polite and averyone should have their say


0 Comentarios, 42 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.55 Puntuación
rm_xxx736581520 37 H
4  Artículos
fitness   27/3/2013

lets try and look after our bodies. at least lets try. its always sexy to our partners


1 Comentarios, 25 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
jpj789 46 H
1  Artículo
I have a difficult time saying "no thanks"   14/3/2013

In general, women that I meet via AmigosCalientes.com fall into three main categories: "Yes!", "Not great, but she'll do" and "No $%#@ way!!".

You can call me shallow. You can call me a sex fiend or a predator. I don't think so - just an ordinary guy looking for some fun.

The twist is that I'm a gentleman. I don't abuse the women that I meet. I treat them well - with respect and try to keep ...


5 Comentarios, 93 Vistas, 10 Votos ,2.79 Puntuación
sexslavexoxo 26 M
1  Artículo
I wish it was easier to say NO   18/2/2013

People come on here, and verbally abuse young women when they are not interested. over and over again, messaging, not giving it up, it almost makes me scared to come on here. i wish there was a way to stop it.


6 Comentarios, 87 Vistas, 7 Votos ,3.80 Puntuación
Linc1912 42 H
12  Artículos
Implied "No Thanks"   16/2/2013

I can accept a "no thank you". Its clear, and easily understood.

What ALOT of us men get unfortunately, are NO responses.

If the man actually took time to write a paragraph that didnt include WANNA FUCK, or COME FUCK NOW, then shouldnt you return the common courtesy of a response?

NO response is just rude. If you had time to read it, you have time to type a response.


6 Comentarios, 94 Vistas, 11 Votos ,5.04 Puntuación
Music_Lover69 26 H
10  Artículos
rejection   12/2/2013

girsl probably reject a lot here.. i mena seriously they must get like 100 messages a day and they get to pick who they wanna fuckk.... isnt it tru ladies....


2 Comentarios, 45 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
annie444u 52 P
196  Artículos
Question, Would You Rather Be Told No Up Front   5/2/2013

We have a couple we like and have been talking to on a regular basis for nearly two years. Both are extremely hot and both tell us that they want to take their first plunge with us, which I believe, but Danny is skeptical.

I say they're afraid to take the plunge, that it is erotica for them to talk to us, share pictures with us, talk of swapping; of their fantasies.

However, ...


8 Comentarios, 139 Vistas, 14 Votos ,4.10 Puntuación
No Thanks and Just Being Ignored   20/1/2013

Well I had to come here and post an article. It is also a pet peeve of mine about sending out completely nice and respectful emails and never hearing a reply back. Sure, it's hard to say no thank you but it then leaves no doubt you're not interested.

Also what I hate even more is when I start an email conversation, goes for 1-2 messages and the woman stop replying. She's on but ...


7 Comentarios, 77 Vistas, 5 Votos ,1.51 Puntuación
portorchardcoup 56 P
4  Artículos
Isnt Easy   24/12/2012

you email you chat you share picks and you decide that you would like to me... You make the plans and you meet and on the surface all is cool...but under the conversation and laughter that lil spark required to get naked isnt what it should be.....you know it will never happen

been there done that...it just isnt easy since the underlying reason for meeting was to get naked.....I would ...


3 Comentarios, 83 Vistas, 8 Votos ,4.64 Puntuación
XXXplaypal 57 H
14  Artículos
Manners....   25/11/2012

Why do some people not takes a minute to say no thanks if they arent interested. It's only polite...


6 Comentarios, 62 Vistas, 7 Votos ,3.30 Puntuación
CivetGlandHippy 35 H
11  Artículos
Respect   23/11/2012

Why do some not understand that a simple no means just that...no? Please people respect is essential if you respect others you will simply get much further in the lifestyle as well as in life.


1 Comentarios, 8 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
portorchardcoup 56 P
4  Artículos
No Thank You it stings only for a min   29/10/2012

We once had to have the most awkward of "No -Way back in the beginning, our first encounter actually..before the internet..so you spent time on the phone getting info and mental pictures from their descriptions. After a number of conversations we all agreed to drive half the distance to the other and meet for coffee.

They had got there first and looking for the car we drove and as we ...


1 Comentarios, 48 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
bigmoney22578 26 H
11  Artículos
mm   27/10/2012

It Be Times When Some One ASk You If You Want This And That , but it want hurt you to tell them no thanks at times


0 Comentarios, 10 Vistas, 0 Votos
blackshirtj 41 H
1  Artículo
Why?   13/8/2012

I have come to notice that most people on this site are either to full of them selves to be polite or just don't care.

Personally, being ignored is a personal pet peeve and is the quickest way to piss me off. When you get a email or IM from me and take the time to look at my profile even if you are not interest you could do me the courtesy of saying sorry not interested vs just deleting ...


7 Comentarios, 66 Vistas, 11 Votos ,0.92 Puntuación
nervouspervis469 46 H
3  Artículos
Why are folks afraid to say "not interested", "thanks anyway", etc...   11/8/2012

Having been on here a while now, I have met some cool folks and exchanged emails here and off the site. What I just don't get though is the lack of response from members...

I've read and talked with others about how the sites full of fakes, nobody is real, etc...

Is that the reason for lack of response? Or is it lack of decency or some feeling of superiority? Something else?? ...


5 Comentarios, 65 Vistas, 9 Votos ,3.21 Puntuación
One Should Accept No   27/6/2012

I am into swinging life style for last 8 years and over the years I have met many Couples and women.My experiences told me that No is a wonderful thing and one should accept it very gracefully. Not every one I met went forward to have sex. Many occasions we met and chemistry didn't worked out so we had our coffee or drink and left.Not many could take it gracefully and they bitch about you but few ...


0 Comentarios, 34 Vistas, 4 Votos ,0.92 Puntuación
nobody328 26 H
23  Artículos
DIFFICULT TO AVOID   30/5/2012

I MYSELF FIND IT DIFFICULT TO SAY THIS WHEN SOMEONE INTIMATES ME


1 Comentarios, 45 Vistas, 5 Votos
being nice   26/5/2012

saying no can be harder than saying yes? right? sometimes it is just easier to go with the flow and just sleep with a partner because easier than to say i dont like y64, that's life, you got to be strong.


0 Comentarios, 23 Vistas, 4 Votos ,0.92 Puntuación
dtwts 54 T
3  Artículos
Be Up Front and Fast   22/5/2012

The best way to do say no on the IM chat is to do it quickly, otherwise the message sender thinks you've stepped away from your computer for a moment (or whatever) and they'll keep sending messages and bugging u. Oh, and hoping that they'll read your profile to see what your preferences might be (a polite thing to do for sure) is a lost hope. Some people are just going to do what they do but if ...


3 Comentarios, 75 Vistas, 10 Votos ,3.19 Puntuación
Matureneedednow 19 H
1  Artículo
How do you do it ?   7/5/2012

How do you say "no thanks" to someone without coming across rude?


2 Comentarios, 55 Vistas, 2 Votos ,2.42 Puntuación
lonelycasahotfr 37 H
9  Artículos
drugs are bad   3/5/2012

sometimes when I date a girl, she comes up with this stupid idea to do drugs, weed or white powder. It's really annoying, as if drugs enhance your stamina or improve your mindset

you just have to say no thanks, bang her and move on...


0 Comentarios, 33 Vistas, 7 Votos ,1.00 Puntuación
babyneedsitnow 54 P
1  Artículo
We think No means No   22/4/2012

If someone is hesitant in any way shape or form then respect of their wish is imperative.


2 Comentarios, 56 Vistas, 8 Votos ,2.09 Puntuación
LTRwhornyman 60 M
4  Artículos
Courtesy is very easy to offer   20/3/2012

We can't account for the behavior of other people but we can account for our own behavior. Being on an adult sight doesn't give anyone a license to be a jerk.

There are lots of folks here without photos or any identifying information which I understand completely but the shame is that this level of anonymity often leads to very bad behavior...in other words a lack of general human ...


4 Comentarios, 53 Vistas, 8 Votos ,4.17 Puntuación
Let's try it   11/3/2012

Small cub Friend alway say no ? He saw he wanted only he he had a big dick but he was all total safe -sez bottom. Good sex ass and friend for me.I says being a Total Top yes!

Small cub, finding top guys to bend his little ass oversize-ones with a thanks.


0 Comentarios, 19 Vistas, 0 Votos
__A_J__ 47 M
10  Artículos
What's the problem?   1/2/2012

I don't believe a lot of people understand what the two words 'no thanks' means. How many times does a person need to say it? ...


5 Comentarios, 96 Vistas, 23 Votos ,3.60 Puntuación
treasurepurrsbk 60 M
1  Artículo
No Thank you to Smokers   20/1/2012

I say over and over No thankyou .why cant a person understand No thankyou Im alergic to tobbacco. No matter how you try cover it up how sexy you think you are or how youll quit after No thankyou .I like to breathe


2 Comentarios, 70 Vistas, 11 Votos ,3.92 Puntuación
darekprince 22 H
5  Artículos
I just cant   22/12/2011

Have you ever had that one guy that no matter how much you tell yourself no and that you can do better still gets to you some how? Well I have a guy like that. Ever since the first time we hooked up I just cant say no. He can go without talking to me for a month but when he calls me or texts me to hook up I fight a little or make myself unavailable, but the sex is so hot that I just give in ...


5 Comentarios, 133 Vistas, 6 Votos ,3.65 Puntuación
caguy45 52 H
1  Artículo
Distance Rejection   19/12/2011

I reject people who live more than 100 miles away and they get very upset typically. I dont understand why so many long distance people contact me and why they get huffy when I say no. Just happened todat with somone over 2000 miles away, and NO photo to send!


5 Comentarios, 98 Vistas, 8 Votos ,3.94 Puntuación
badgirlfriend97 37 M
3  Artículos
Please dont be a dick   9/12/2011

My profile plainly states im looking for a specific thing so please dont be a dick when you contact me and show what you dont have and im not interested. I know that makes me sound like a bitch i just know what i want and if you dont have it dont pretend you do in my opion your actualy the douch for wasting our time.


5 Comentarios, 224 Vistas, 18 Votos ,3.94 Puntuación
silkyfine25 34 M
2  Artículos
I'm just not Interested   7/12/2011

I get a number of emails, some i find very interesting and others i don't...I have no problem with respectfully declineing anyone if i don't feel there is a honest attraction....But i have noticed that i get alot of rude and tasteless emails as a reply, so my question is should i just ignore those that i'm not interested in or do i continue being repectful and letting them know that i'm not ...


2 Comentarios, 134 Vistas, 11 Votos ,2.98 Puntuación
fisherman197008 48 H
23  Artículos
always be both polite and firm   2/12/2011

I have found that when I am not interested in someone that being honest is best, you should try to be polite but firm, that way it spares hard feelings and embarasment for them. the honesty should be appreciated.their feelings may be a little hurt, but they will respect you for being honest.


1 Comentarios, 11 Vistas, 1 Votos ,3.70 Puntuación
tr0ublesc0wb0y 37 H
1  Artículo
yes=no   29/10/2011

On my wife and I's couples profile we have experienced a lot of people not taking no for an answer. On several occasions had men and couple hound us even after we said we're not interested. When did saying no become saying yes? It seems people think it is ok to hound someone for sex just because this is a "hook up" site.


3 Comentarios, 30 Vistas, 2 Votos ,5.20 Puntuación
dnafun11 45 P
16  Artículos
Why is it so hard to say 'No thank you"?   20/10/2011

Why do people find it so hard to say "no thank you"? And for others to accept that response. We have a few couples that even though we have chatted a number of times and each time have come to the conclusion that we are not compatible together for various reasons. (For example one wants us to be exclusive to them only until they decide otherwise, they say it is for safety reasons being worried ...


4 Comentarios, 97 Vistas, 15 Votos ,5.58 Puntuación