While I am in a good marriage, the sexual aspect is completely lacking. The ideal companion for me would be a lady who appreciates attention and can give and receive pleasure. I am well-educated and enjoy conversations about politics, movies, and ideas. Enjoy dining out as well as cooking. I am not looking for a 19 year old model type. I prefer ladies with some meat on their bones and some years of experience living in the real world. Intelligence and wit count far more to me than physical perfection. As far as intimacy goes, I like to have what I call "friendly sex". No pain, just gentle loving between me and you.